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"For some years I have been on my own bringing up my children, through no fault of my own, but the Government and media make us feel inadequate and to blame. The challenge for me is the isolation, the loneliness, the painful awareness that we are not able to join in society or play any part in it. We are spectators as we watch other people live, then struggle to survive to make a life for our children. For example, we have no consumer choice.

At times we need to get things for our children but do not manage - proper nutrition, school trips, new clothing. We are ashamed of inviting others in because we don't have carpets, aren't able to decorate or replace worn furniture. Often, those in authority then judge us for it, and that is interpreted as not caring about our children. The professionals we have to deal with, teachers, social workers, benefits advisors, police or council workers can all clock off, go home .We, who have to live on the other end of their decisions, cannot.

We are powerless, faced with our circumstances, not taken seriously, our voice not respected. Those who have never lived it think they know better. I want to be heard, respected, my experience valued, not derided. Our voice can raise awareness of poverty and break the barriers down."

Maggie, family member.